July 21, 2011

How Islam Can Help You Quit Smoking


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One of the dangers of tobacco is that it is so addicting. It causes a physical response in your body when you try to give it up. Therefore, quitting is often difficult. However, with the help of Allah and the personal commitment to improve yourself for the sake of Allah, and for your own health, it is possible.

Niyyah – Make Your Intention

It is first recommended to make the firm intention, from deep in your heart, to give up this evil habit. Trust in Allah’s words: “…When you have taken a decision, put your trust in Allah. For Allah loves those who put their trust in Him. If Allah help you, none can overcome you; if He forsakes you, who is it – after that – that can help you? In Allah, then, let believers put their trust” (Qur’an 3:159-160).

Change Your Habits

Secondly, you must avoid situations where you are used to smoking, and people who do so around you. For example, if you have certain friends who gather together to smoke, make a choice to stay away from that environment for the time being. At a vulnerable stage, it is too easy to relapse by having “just one.” Remember, tobacco causes a physical addiction and you must stay away completely.

Find Alternatives

Thirdly, drink a lot of water and keep yourself busy in other endeavors. Spend time in the mosque. Play sports. Pray. Spend time with your family and non-smoking friends. And remember the words of Allah: “And those who strive hard in Our Cause, We will certainly guide them to Our Paths, for verily Allah is with those who do right” (Qur’an 29:69).

If You Live With a Smoker

If you live with or are friends with smokers, first of all encourage them to quit, for the sake of Allah, their health, and their deen. Share with them the information here, and offer support through the difficult process of quitting.
Remember that we will each face Allah alone, however, and we are responsible for our own choices. If they refuse to quit, you have the right to protect your own health and the health of your family. Do not allow it in the house. Do not allow it in enclosed quarters with your family.
If the smoker is a parent or other elder, we should not neglect to take care of our health out of “respect.” The Qur’an is clear that we are not to obey our parents in things which are forbidden by Allah. Gently, but firmly, advise them of the reasons for your own choices.

Jumay Ke 7 Aamaal


Jumay Ke 7 Aamaal



Hadees Mein Hay Ke Jo Jumay Ke Din 7 Aamaal Karle Us Ko Masjid Jaate Hue Har Qadam Per Aik Saal Ki NaNafli Namazun Ka Sawab Milega Or Aik Saal Ke Nafli Rozun Ka Sawab Milega.
(Ibne Maja, Tirmizi, Nisai Or Abu Dawood)
1.Ghusul Karna
2.Achay Kapray Pehan Na
3.Masjid Jane Ki Fikar Karna
4.Masjid Paidal Jana
5.Imam Ke Qareeb Baithnay Ki Koshish Karna
6.Khutba Ghor Se Sun Na
7.Koi Behooda Laghoo Kaam Na Karna
Us Ke ilawa Nikah Jumay Ke Din Asr Ke Baad Karna Sunnat Hay Or Agar Shawaal Ka Month ho tu Double Sawab Kyun ke Hazrat-e-Ayesha Razi Allah Tala Anha Farmati hein k musalmano Apni Shaadi Shawaal Ke Month mein kia karo.
Us ke ilawa Janaza Ho tu Jumay ki namaz se pehlay parhoo.Hadees mein hay ke aik rivayat mein hay k aglay jumay tak or aik mein hay k qayamat tak Maghfirat hojati hay agr jumay ki namaz se pehlay dafnaya .Awam mein ye baat mashoor hay k log ziyada hongay jumay ki namaz mein isi liye hum jumay ki namaz k baad janaza parhwate hein jo ke bilkul ghalat cheez chal pari hay. Or Ulama ne likha hay k Jumay ki namaz se pehlay sirf 4 admi bhi houn tu hazarun namazi jumay ke se wo 4 afzal hein jin hun ne Sunnat Ada ki hay.
Us Ke ilawa Jumay Ko Kisi ka inteqal hojaye yaani kisi ka Thursday ki maghrib k baad inteqal hua maghrib ke baad doosra din shuroo hojata hay tu wo shab jumay hi ki hay or murday ko jald se jald dafnane ko kaha gaya hay hadees mein or murday ko Baraf Khaane Rakhna Gunah-e-Kabeera Hay. 2 Hours tak aik qabar khoodne mein time lagta hay. hamare han jab koi marjata hay tu aik aik or do do din tak murday ko baraf khaanay mein rakha jata hay ko ke ghalat hay.Islam mein iski koi gunjaish nahi hay, Hadees mein hay ke “Agar wo naik hay tu usko achi jaghan jane se rokte ho Or Agr Bura hay tu apne paas rakhte ho”.or kisi ka wait karne ki zarorat nahi hay ! hamare han tu Allah maaf kare doosray city se falan a raha hay falahn country se falan araha hay ke uska chehra dekhlun abhi dafna na nahi sab beqaar kaam hein bas sab tayari hogai qabar khud gai kafan dafan ka intezam hogaya tu bas phir dair nahi karni chahiye or ulama me is ki misaal aisi di hay k jab kisi ko hadsa hojaye masalann kisi ka sir phatt jaye ya koi emergency hojaye tu unko forran hospital ilaj k liye le jate hein ! lekin Us Shaks ke saath tu itna bara hadsa hua hay moat ka tu usko Khilona banadete hein Awam !
Jumay Ke Din ” Surah Kahaf ” Parhne Per Ahadeees Mein Bhi Buhat Si Fazeelat Ai Hay, Lehaza Koshish Ye Karein Ke Jumay ki Namaz Se Pehlay Parhlein !
Jo Fasaad Ke Dor Mein Meri Sunnat Zinda Karega Allah Usko 100 Shaheedun Ka Sawab Dein Gay (Hadees)


Naqshe Qadam Nabi Ke Hein Janant Ke Raaste

Allah Se Milate Hein Sunnat Ke Raaste

July 19, 2011

Ghazal ^^^Aap Ke Liye ^^^


Teri Yaadon Ke Bina Koi Lamha Guzarta Nahin Toh Kya Karoon..
Dil Har Pal Tujh Ko Hi Pukare To Main Kya Karoon..

Meri Shaksiyat Ko Jo Pehchaan Di Tune Wo Kya Byaan Karoon..
Aap Se Hi Dil Mera Haara Hai To Main Kya Karoon..

Yeh Gam Aapka Apne Naam Kaise Karoon..
Teri Hi Khushi Mein Dil Rona Chahe To Main Kya Karoon..

Tere Bin Ujdi Hai Dil Ki Basti To Kya Karoon..
Dil Ki Kashti Ka Tu Ban Gaya Hai Maajhi Kya Karoon..

Kisi Ko Gale Laga Ke Rone Ki Muraad Ab Main Karoon..
Is Bhari Duniya Mein Dil Aapko Hi Apna Kahe To Kya Karoon..

Is Marz-E-Ishq Ki Koi Dawa Nahin Milti Kya Karoon..
Gehre Zakhmon Ke Nishan Na Jaaye To Kya Karoon..

Mere Ashkon Ka Sagar Tere Do Haath Dhoondhe To Kya Karoon..
Tujhko Dena Chahe Zindgani Mere Saare Haq To Kya Karoon..

Meri Bebasi Ka Tujhe Hai Ehsaas Is Baat Se Kaise Inkaar Karoon..
Tere Bin Zindagi Maut Si Lagti Hai Mujhe To Main Kya Karoon..

Tere Dil Mein Jo Basa Hai,
Main Woh Ek Ehsaas Hoon,
Door Rehkar Bhi Main Tere Paas Hoon....

Yeh Naa Soch Ke Teri Khamoshi Ne Mujhse Kuch Naa Kaha!!!
Meri Mohabbat Alfaazo Ki Mohtaj Nahi,
Main Tere Dil Ki Awaaz Hoon!!
Door Rehkar Bhi Main Tere Paas Hoon.....

Meri Pehchaan Tujhse Hi Hai,Teri Pehchaan Bhi Mujhse,
Tu Agar Jism Hai To Main Libaaz Hoon,
Door Rehkar Bhi Main Tere Paas Hoon....

Tujhko Tujhse Hi Churaa kar Mehfoos Rakha Hai Apne Dil Mein,
Tere Bin To Main Jaise, Ek Toota Hua Saaz Hoon!!!
Door Rehkar Bhi Main Tere Paas Hoon....

Jab Bhi Main Tanha Rehti Hoon,
Meri Har Soch Mujhse Tera Hi Zikar Karati Hai!!!
Tu Jo Saath Hai To Mehsoos Hota Hai Aksar,
Main Bhi Kuch Khaas Hoon..
Door Rehkar Bhi Main Tere Paas Hoon....

Tasveer Ki Koi Zubaan Nahi Hoti,
Aur Mohabbat Ki Umar Nahi Hoti,
Par Phir Bhi, Kabhi Zindagi Ke Panho Ko Palatkar Dekh,
Jo Bhuj Naa Paaye Mohabbat Mein,Main Waisi Ek Pyaas Hoon!!!
Door rehkar Bhi Main Tere paas Hoon....

Tere Jazbaaton Mein Bikhar Bhi Jaau To koi Gham Nahi!!!
Main Hi Tera Humsafar Hoon, Main Hi Humraaz Hoon..
Door rehkar bhi Main Tere Paas Hoon...
Apne Haathon ki lakeeron mein basa le mujhko
main hoon tera,Tu naseeb apna bana le mujhko
Apne haathon ki lakeeron mein basa le mujhko..

Mujhse Tu puchne aaya hai,waffa ke maani
Yeh Teri saada-dili maar na daale mujhko

Apne haathon ki lakeeron mein basa le mujhko...
Main hoon tera,Tu naseeb apna bana le mujhko...

Khud ko Main baant na daalu kahin Daaman-Daaman
Kar diya agar tune mere havale mujhko

Apne haathon ki lakeeron mein basa le mujhko...
Main hoon Tera,Tu naseeb apna bana le mujhko...

Vaada fir Vaada hai,Main zehar bhi pi jaau "QATEEL"
Shart yeh hai ke koi baahon mein sambhale mujhko

Apne haathon ki lakeeron mein basa le mujhko
Main hoon tera,Tu naseeb apna bana le mujhko...


Mujhe phir yaad aate hai.N mere bichre hue saathi
Lahoo mujh ko rulate hai.N mere bichre hue saathi

Mere takleef se hoti the un ko jo pareshaani
Usi ke yaad laate hai.N mere bichre hue saathi

Usi mehfil mai.N jis ki yaad se mujh ko muhabbat he
Abhi bhi khench late hai.N mere bichre hue saathi

Shanaasa haal se mere wo mujh se bhi zayaada hai.N
Mujhe khud se milate hai.N mere bichre hue saathi

Unhai.N shamo-sahar mai.N bhi hamesha yaad rakhta hoo.N
Mujhe kab bhool pate hai.N mere bichre hue saathi

Bula leta hoo.N akser khaab mai.N maazi ki yaadoo.N ko
Mujhe jab yaad aate hai.N mere bichre hue saathi

Kabhi jo neend aa jaye tu khaboo.N mai.N mere aaker
Mujhe pehroo.N sulate hai.N mere bichre hue saathi


Yeh dekhna hai ke kahani kahan badalti hai
Zindagi Aakhir Zindagi Hai
Har haal mein chalti hai

naa ummeedi mayoosi dil pe liye baitha hoon main
par sochta hoon ek pal ke liye bhi
saansein kahan thamti hai
Zindagi Aakhir Zindagi Hai
Har haal mein chalti hai

patharon ke chott ki parwah nahi mujhe
par phoolon se milli chott aankhein nam karti hai
Zindagi Aakhir Zindagi Hai
Har haal mein chalti hai

jashn kabhi manzil ka nahi safar ka hota hai
naa jaane zindagi kin halaaton se guzarti hai
Zindagi Aakhir Zindagi Hai
Har haal mein chalti hai

waqt ka takaza kaho ya kaho
khel haatho ki lakeeron ka
taqdeer sirf baaton ke
dam par kahan badalti hai
Zindagi Aakhir Zindagi Hai
Har haal mein chalti hai

muskurate hue har dard seh sakte hai
par kissi ki khamoshi dil ko bohat khalti hai
Zindagi Aakhir Zindagi Hai
Har haal mein chalti hai

dhoop aur chaao har safar ka hissa hai
mushkilon se ladhkar hi
humesha takdeer nikharti hai
Zindagi Aakhir Zindagi Hai
Har haal mein chalti hai


Mahsus Kar Mujhe Tu, Kabhi Paas Aa Ke Dekh
Mere Jahan-E-Dil Mein Apna Ghar Basa Ke Dekh

Koi Aisey Ajnabi Bhi Nahin Is Shahr Ke Log
Kuchh Keh To Ranj-O-Gham Ki, Sab Ko Suna Ke Dekh

Hamshakl Ho Gaya Hai Mere Gham Ka, Tera Gham
Tu Mere Dil Ko Apna Aayina Bana Ke Dekh

Yeh Farq Dair-O-Harm Ka Nazron Ka Bharam Hai
Tu Deengah Se Apni, Bahar To Aa Ke Dekh

Jab Ranjishon Mein Kat Gayee, Ab Na Fareb Kar
Waqt Aakhiree Hai, Ab Na Muskura Ke Dekh

Khamosh Sun Rahey Hain Hum, Sarghoshi-E-Bahar
Aatey Hain Apne Gaaon Se Jhonkey Hawa Ke Dekh

Main Muntzir Hun Roz-O-Shab, Aiy Dard-E-Do_Jahan!
Be-Dard, Jab Bhi Waqt Miley, Aazma Ke Dekh,..